Weddings and Events

We welcome all who are committed to one another in the spirit of love.

"Thank you so much for helping us create the perfect wedding celebration.  Your support, kindness and calm were great assets throughout this adventure." –Sarah

"How can we possibly thank you enough?  Thanks for your light, love, energy, fabulousness & awareness!" - Maria


or contact us directly at (707)987-0505,


Backyard Garden Oasis Events

Every season Backyard Garden Oasis hosts magical events from the natural world. Weddings, Anniversaries, Graduations, Spritual Retreats, Business Retreats and Birthday Celebrations are all popular events.  The Oasis can host weddings or other special occasions of up to 125 people.  The ceremony and reception can be held on the lawn and around the pond and waterfall.   The Oasis can connect you with local catereres, florists, make-up artists, and other local planners.  We take pride in being GLBT friendly and welcome the opportunity to provide a beautiful setting for any couple who love one another enough to marry.

We have an acre of landscaped grounds and gardens, available to be used to your heart's desire.  The acre includes the fountain, waterfall and pond as well as a vast lawn with many opportunities for taking beautiful photographs to be cherished forever. There is plenty of parking for your guests and there are ample lodgings in the area as well. Wedding parties have set up tables and chairs for dining, created special rituals, and danced until 10pm before honeymooning in their cottages. Helping people realize their dreams is an distinct honor.




We had our first LGBT Wedding here in 2008, during that narrow window when it was possible.Now, we are happy to say, this possibility exists for everyone. Let me help you make your wedding a memorable event!

The Wedding Package includes a Grounds Rental Fee as well as the exclusive use of the three cottages for two or three days, depending on the weekend. Please call or email Greta for pricing.


Payment is as follows:

At the time of the reservation, pay a 50% non-refundable deposit for the Grounds Rental.

4 weeks in advance of the event pay the remaining balance, the cottage rentals, and a $1000 refundable security deposit. 

We have contacts with excellent wedding planners, florists, manicurists, make-up artists, massage therapists, catering companies, including
Preferred Sonoma Caterers, Petaluma as well as party rental companies. We can get the
Boneyard Food Truck from San Francisco to cater events here as well.


 If you are looking for a place to stay in the Calistoga - Harbin Hot Springs area of Wine Country for a wedding, bridal shower or other event, girls'weekend getaway, anniversary getaway, romantic weekend getaway or even a last minute getaway, this is the perfect place for you. We are even dog-friendly.

Backyard Garden Oasis B&B
PO Box 1760
24019 Hilderbrand Dr
Middletown, CA 95461

Phone: +1 707 987 0505


What's New

  • Spring is here! Trees are in bloom and wildflowers are beginning to show up on the hillsides.
  • The new bridge is completely finished. We are just waiting for more rains to grow the lupin and poppy seeds that were planted on the sides of the bridge!  Visit my Facebook page for photos of the construction project.
  • Flat Screen TV's and DVDs have been added to all the cottages, so bring your movies with you for entertainment.
  • Cottages can be booked during the week without breakfast and with a $20 Discount.  
  • Early Spring Harvest  While most of our crops are still under Remay and waiting for warmer Spring weather, we are harvesting kale, chard, bok choi, parsley, lettuce and arugula.  Looks like the weather this month will be friendly to plants and visitors with warm, dry weather!
  • Free Wi-Fi  is available in all the cottages.
  • All our linens, including robes,  are 100% Cotton.


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